how to deal with sibling rivalry

 

No matter how hard you try, siblings are likely to fight over things such as toys and tease and criticize each other. Sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up. 

tips on managing conflicts between your children

Remember that each child’s needs are different. 

Parents need to remember that each child behaves differently. It is important to treat children differently to meet their individual needs.

Stay out of children’s arguments as much as possible.

Try not to take sides when your children argue. It is important to explain to them that they need to figure things out themselves. You can get involved when things get violent and make your children aware that such behavior are not acceptable. Praise your children when they solve their arguments and reward good behavior.

Sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up. 

 

While it’s natural to notice differences between your children, it is important not to comment on these in front of them.

It easy for a child to think he is not as loved or as good as the other when you compare them. Remember that each child is special. Let them know that.

Respect your child’s privacy. 

If it is important to punish or scold, do it alone with the child. Do not embarrass your child by scolding or punishing them in front of others.

 

Be Fair 

If you must be involved in your children’s arguments, listen to all sides of the story. Give children privileges that are right for their age and be consistent with it.

Family meetings can be a great way to solve sibling issues.

Parents sharing their experiences about growing up can help children. Listening to your children can help too. Remember it is the kids’ opportunity to learn about the give-and-take of human relationship.

References

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Give Peace a Chance: Sibling Rivalry Causes and Solutions. Healthline. https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/sibling-rivalry. Accessed April 30th, 2023
Sibling rivalry. WebMD. https://www.webmd.com/parenting/sibling-rivalry. Accessed April 30th, 2023

 

 

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