My son, Brendan, was four years old when his brother, Shayne, was born. I tried to get him ready for the arrival when I was pregnant by letting him help with the preparations, such as helping me decorate Shayne’s new room, and putting his hand on my belly when the baby kicked. Of course, a new child in the family is a life-changing event, and I realized more would need to be done so that Brendan didn’t feel left out. There were steps I took that seemed to help, and things I wished I’d done differently after the boys were older.
“Can We Send it Back”? Your Child and a New Sibling